Our Story - The First 8 Months |
We are the Olney family, I am Allison and I married Adam in 1996. Working hard
we delayed kids for 6 years then in 2002 I fell pregnant. Two weeks after
discovering I was pregnant I had some spotting, it was my 1st pregnancy and I
thought the worst. Rushing home I called my sister Christine, and my
obstetrician & went straight in for an ultrasound fearing the worse, and not yet
telling Adam. The ultrasound took some time and they even called in a second
person to have a look. I then panicked. The two ladies pointed to the screen and
said, "See those two dots, you're pregnant with twins and we can hear their
heartbeats!". It was so exciting, I was over the moon to say the least.
I surprised Adam that night by leaving the ultrasound photos on the table for
him to find. From this point on my pregnancy went fine, I never had high blood
pressure, swollen feet or morning sickness. At 27 weeks I had a baby shower &
three days later I went to my obstetrician, who said she couldn't see the 1st
twins heart very well and thought that there may be a problem with the baby's
heart. She said the baby may have a hole in
its heart, but that this condition was not a big
issue nowadays with today's knowledge. I was devastated and I called Adam and
told him there was a problem with one of the babies and that I needed another
ultrasound with the cardiologist at Liverpool Hospital. Adam got off work and
came home straight away. The cardiologist at Liverpool hospital said there was a
problem with twin ones heart and made an appointment with Dr Sholler at Westmead
Children's Hospital the next day..and what a long night it was....We found out
that twin 1 had a condition known as Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome. Dr Sholler
said Sydney, Melbourne or America may do the procedures and continued by
stating, "Chances of the baby surviving the operations is 30%". We were also
told to expect the worst as twins are commonly premature which halves the chance
of survival and chances are the baby may be mentally or physically challenged,
adding "if he does survive the procedures his quality of life may not be good
and this will affect you two and the other baby". He also told us to take a few
days to think about it and get back to him on what we wanted to do. Our options
where to take a chance and have the operations or do nothing and let nature take
its course. We called him back the next day and said we would do the Sydney
option, He said great he would arrange it. He called us back saying that Sydney
no longer does the operation due to insurance issues. We where at a loss as what
to do now, then we heard Melbourne was an option, so we chose to go to
Melbourne. Dr Sholler put us in touch with Dr Penny in Melbourne who said they
will definitely take us but we had to be there within two weeks. So Adam moved
myself and my sister Christine 850 km to Melbourne!. We left on the 14/10/02,
Adam returning to Sydney to continue working. At 37 weeks I hadn't gone into
labour yet, so at 38 weeks (due to Dr Brizard's impending leave and that he had
to be around for 1st operation and 2 weeks following) they induced me. After 5.5
hrs I was only 5cm dilated but no heads had moved down so I had a
C-section. Adam and mum drove down from Sydney arriving just in time. On
Wednesday 13/11/02 Haydan (HLHS) was born at 6:06 pm weighing 3165kg and Jordan
was born at 6.07 pm and weighed 3240kg. The Doctors could not tell which
baby was HLHS so both boys were taken to be checked in ICU. They decided that
Haydan had the problem and was taken by NETS transport to the Royal Children's
Hospital. The NETS team dropped into the ward I was in so I could see Haydan
before they took him away. Daily Adam would visit Haydan and send him, mum and
Jordan's love, taking photos and videotaping, as I was still in the Royal
Women's Hospital and would stay there for 5 days due to complications from the
C-section. I saw Haydan for the first time since his birth when he was 5 days
old on the morning of his "NORWOOD STAGE I WITH RV TO PA CONDUIT", the date was
18/11/02. Haydan went in at 10am and was out again at 6:30pm. It seemed like so
very long, but finally an hour later I could see Haydan in ICU. It was extremely
emotional. Dr Brizard came and talked to us and said Haydan is not out of the
woods and the surgery took a little longer as we had trouble taking him off
the dialysis machine, but he was very pleased with how it all went. Thank
goodness everything went well. Haydan's chest was closed on 22/11/02 and he
stayed in ICU for a total of 7 days. Nurse Holli, was fabulous, very confident
and capable, I felt at ease when she was Haydan's night nurse. Adam, Jordan in a
double pram and I, could not all be in ICU at the same time, so this meant we
could never see Haydan together so we took turns visiting Haydan and looking
after Jordan. Haydan went to 7 west on the 25/11/02 and Nurse Karen watched him
a lot, she talked straight talk and we thank her dearly for that. Haydan's
oxygen saturation before surgery was approx 73% and after the operation it
increased to 75-80% max, this was considered to be low so he was monitored. The
oxygen saturation for a healthy baby is 98 - 99%. The monitor and hourly notes
confirmed that everything was fine. Haydan looked great and the Doctors were
happy . Haydan was in 7 West for a few days when they discovered fluid in his
chest, restricting both his heart and his breathing, (pericardial and left
pleural effusion), so on 28/11/02 Haydan was back to surgery, the fluid was
drained and a catheter was left in his chest to drain any more fluid out. The
operation took 3 hours and when it was finished he was taken back to 7 West
where I was to try bottle feeding him for the first time. He was to start with
only 20mls every hour . Haydan took well to bottle feeding straight away, which
is rare for HLHS babies, so I made sure I was there for as many feeds as
possible, each feed could take up to an hour. Within 5 days his bottle feeding
was up to 60mls every 3 hours, and his nose tube was taken out. On the 10/12/02
Haydan was almost 3.5 weeks old, he was allowed to come to parent accommodation
for day visits, very exciting!. After two days of this he came to stay with us
in the accommodation, he went back for "Rounds", where Haydan was checked
over. We were very grateful and very lucky that there were no issues. To our
amazement on the 23/12/02, just 5 weeks after the stage one Norwood operation,
Swee Cum,(care nurse)called and said we could go back to Sydney and in around 2
months they would send a letter with the exact date to return to Melbourne for
stage 2 of the Norwood procedure. We were told this at 2:30pm 23/12/02. Adam
took the boys for a walk in the park and I packed like crazy being so excited by
the news. We gave our groceries to a neighbour and donated our pram to 7 West,
(as we had no room in the car). We did not tell my family we were coming home.
At 9pm we left Melbourne and started the 850 km trip home to Sydney. The
long trip went really smooth. Before leaving I called my mum and sisters
and asked them to check our mail at home as early as possible as we were
expecting something really important. Christmas Eve they got the surprise of
their lives to see us home and to see the boys for the 1st time since the day
they were born. We had a very relaxing, happy, and exciting day together. The
next 2 months in Sydney went really smooth, as the boys settled in fairly well.
You couldn't tell Haydan had any problem, except he was often rosy. We saw Dr
Sholler 3 times and he said everything looked great. Haydan
slept 9pm-6am nightly without waking, no more night feeds, (Medication was
given during his sleep). Before we new it was time for Stage 2 Operation, "New
Norwood" so we arrived back in Melbourne 11/3/03. Haydan had the catheter on
13/3/03, and stage 2 of the Norwood Operation was on the 18/3/03. We had to be
there at 7am, but had a very long wait as we did not go in until 5pm. At 1030pm
Haydan came out of surgery and we were very pleased to hear everything had gone
fine. He was taken to ICU for just 3.5 hours as a precaution and at
2am 14/03/03 he went back to 7 West. The next morning he was feeding by bottle
once again, lucky as he kept pulling the feeding tube out of his nose. He threw
up his first feed all 90mls. I was worried and called urgently to nurse, who
said he was to be fed slow as his drugs were still wearing off. From this point
on he was an unhappy baby crying all the time, very loudly, all day, and all
night. I think he hated the fact his bed was behind 7 West nurses desk with
lights and phones It was extremely upsetting for Haydan and ourselves, and they
couldn't do anything about it. Haydan would only sleep in my arms which he had
never done before. They also put oxygen tube under his nose as his oxygen
saturation levels went down to 55-60% during his sleep. The oxygen tube was
constantly being pulled away by Haydan. I couldn't stay overnight as section 2
in 7 West was the only room parents couldn't sleep in the chair beside there
babies, so I left and saw Jordan for a while. These were very emotional times
for all of us. They decided to keep the oxygen off and monitor Haydan
constantly. Dr Brizard said all his monitor readings were fine, and that his
colour was blue/pale but its obviously how he'll be, (Jordan is also a very pale
baby). I felt extremely uneasy as other parents were bothered by Haydan's
crying, as they had their own issues to deal with. The Cardiologist, and Doctors
stated that the new blood flow can give them headaches causing them to be
irritable. Haydan came and spent a week with the rest of the family in the
Ronald McDonald house, where at about 2pm on the 03/04/03 we got a call out of
blue saying Haydan could go home to Sydney, so we left that night, once again
thankfully the boys slept all night during the trip. Once arriving back home
Haydan went back to sleeping all night and being the happy little boy we few
within days. Haydan and Jordan reached 8 months old on 13/7/03. Haydan now
weighs 8.9kg and Jordan weighs 10.3kg. Both boys have 2 teeth, they love
broccoli, carrots, sweet potato, banana and have wheatbix for breaky. Since May
2003 they have fed themselves their bottles and sleep from 7pm till 6am nightly,
sleeping right through, though they may occasionally wake for a dummy, . Haydan
rolls everywhere, does combat crawl and will stand for about 10seconds at a
time with support and can move backwards in his walker. As for medications, he
is now only on Captopril 0.3ml *3 daily and 3.5ml aspirin once, (no more
spironolactone). Jordan runs around the house in his walker and can stand
forever. Both boys shake their heads no, and now understand "uh uh no", so our
plants are not been eaten any more and our oven is not being approached. They
constantly laugh at each other and fight over toys, (Haydan always wins).
Haydan gets a little puffed trying to keep up with his brother. Haydan has very
chubby cheeks and is extremely ticklish, and both boys have found a new toy in
the bath..boys will be boys.....
Thankyou for reading!
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